Hey lesley, Im sorry for your loss.. I can relate. I sat with her also on the bedside. Know the gasps of air. It seems like you have a lovely way of goodbye, talking about your childhood memories. Im sure your mother choose her moment. You did great in the whole story. My sincere condolences. Im also writing you this message because i want to help people like us. I lost my parents when i was in my mid 20's (now 28). Im doing good now. I can say that with confidence. Do you mind answering 2 questions for me? Ignore it all you want if its inappropriate. - As someone who lost a parent(s)/ family member, what are the 2 biggest struggles you’re dealing with? - Regarding your loss, what would you wish for more than anything else? That’s it. I wish you all the best on your journey in life. Thank you in advance for your reply. ... View more