Leemarley, I hope all is going okay with the people you are starting to tell. I just wanted to add a bit to CaptainAustrali's comments about dealing with tricky situations. My mother was a smoker for the best part of three decades - and developed breast cancer, which moved to her lungs. In my view, she did not bring it on herself; I do not blame her one bit. I will never, ever forgive the cigarettes. It's not what you did or didn't do (every person on the planet could live a better life, after all) - it's those nasty little sticks.
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Cancer Council NSW would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land on which we live and work.We would also like to pay respect to elders past and present and extend that respect to all other Aboriginal people.