Hi Peter, I am very sorry to hear that you have been diagnosed with cancer again.   Like yourself, I've never felt the need to hide the fact that I've had cancer. I am quite open about it with everyone. Talking about it and laughing about it helps everyone (including ourselves) cope with what is happening and going on in our lives. It's a good release, but I guess that it also comes down to the type of person that we are.   In regards to your parents, at the end of the day they are just worried about you. Ultimately you know your parents best, but I would suggest being reasonably direct and honest. Explain to them that after the chemo you are emotionally and physical exhausted (I know I was) and that you will talk to them the next day after your treatment. Or maybe if they are really concerned that you will send them an SMS after the treatment that lets them know that you are OK, and you will then talk to them the next day.   I hope this helps.   -s     ... View more