Skip   Sorry to hear about your health and your husband.  As a son of a alcoholic it breaks my heart to hear about your husband. My father died on my birthday when he was only 47 years ago.  He never got to enjoy being a grandfather.  I'm 55 now and still don't understand his life chooses. But I did learn from them. I finally got to the point in my life where I wasn't afraid to become like him. But I have decided not to drink anymore. It never was a problem for me. I haven't had hard alcoholic in 12 years or any alcoholic since my mom passed 6 years ago. I would love to talk to your husband about how he is going to be remembered by his kids. My father was prefect until he became a drunk.  I struggle with remembering the good side of him. He became a abuses alcoholic. That how I remember him. I want my kids and grandchildren to remember me as someone who was always honest, firm and loving. My grandfather once told me all we ever take to our grave is our name.  But please don't think I'm judging your husband.  You sound like a awesome woman.  You definitely have a lot going on right now.  Like Linda I would also like to know how old are your kids?  I can't imagine going through all you are and having to worry about young children.  Ill be praying for you.  Please keep us updated as best you can. 🌹 ... View more