My exwife didn’t stand a chance, all her vital organs was failing her. That is way, she has no treatment. It saddens me thought that my kids are not the same anymore after she passed away.   it is my worry at the moment, the mental welfare of my kids.   ... View more

The kids just turned 17, few months ago. They are twins, boy & girl.  And yes they have changed, sometimes I think it’s for the worse, but I’m giving them time. They are still grieving the loss of their beloved mother. I will give them time, to process everything.   Finally they went to school today, and the school councillor made time to speak to my daughter. Hopefully it helped. But we’ll see, time will tell     ... View more

Thank you so much, me, the kids and family are still coping with loss my exwife. The hard part is the kids have changed, different, and just doesn’t want to go to school. It’s like their throwing away their moms hopes and dreams for them. I’m just at a lost ... View more

My exwife passed away May 1st it was hard, very hard im coping and being strong for my kids     ... View more

Hi Budgie,   I was pretty emotional when I found out my exwife was diagnosed. It really hit me hard, so as my son. My daughter on the other hand, basically accepted the facts and what might happen.  I did try to talk to both of them heart to heart, but they simply shut me down, and doesn’t want to talk about. It’s because their mum doesn’t want me to know.   I told them that whatever your mum wants, we should all do it for her. I did tell my kids that if they need to talk or whatever, I’ll be there for them. And not to bottle up their emotions.  The last time I saw them, they seemed ok and acting normally with me.   I’m doing okay now, slowly going back to a bit of normality. I just have keep going, be there for my kids, and stay strong.           ... View more

I have to be strong for the kids sake, I don’t show any emotions when I’m with them. We don’t even talk about their moms condition. It’s a way to get their mind out of that situation. Since they are with her all the time.     ... View more

Hi Mycoolspy,   We are finally talking and I’m able to see her and the kids, as long as we don’t talk about anything to do with her condition.   Me, the kids and the rest of the family are simply doing what she wishes.  I know it’s extremely hard for her to accept what is going on,  but we as a family are hoping that things will change for the better.   We just have to be strong.   Regards   Ex ... View more

Hi Sch, At the moment that’s all I been doing. I try not to overwhelm her and the kids by calling and messaging too much.   I told them that I will be here for them when they need me.    ... View more