My condolences.  I'm at the start of a similar journey with my husband recently diagnosed with late-stage bowel cancer and caring for two kids. I don't have the experience out the other end yet. But I wanted to say hi and good luck.  I've found the journey so far very difficult. Especially navigating care for my husband, dealing with my own feelings, while looking after and supporting my children through this. I'm starting to learn that there is no right way, it's just muddling through one step at a time. I've also been looking out for people in similar situations, wondering how on earth people get through it.   My hat off to you for getting through the last few years. You've already done more than I could have imagined a few months ago.    ... View more