Hi Kkdresmith   It makes sense you’re worried for your sister, your family history can’t be ignored. Will you be attending the appointment with your sister? Maybe she’s fearful, either way she will need your support and the company only a sister can offer rather than you sending her into the lions den alone....  Maybe suggesting a sister occasion for you both? lunch or dinner somewhere where she won’t be distracted and can clearly hear you without any interruptions,  you both could explore her getting a second test to make sure everything’s okay?  You can draw on the fact you’ll be there by her.  Your family’s health history that she’s not a doctor or dietician to know why she is bleeding  and that you would really need her to go with you.  bleeding that frequently must have a major impact on her personal life and intimate affairs. She is denying herself a quality life.   Only you can impress on her the importance that she goes with you to check everything’s okay.   Choose a suitable meeting place, call her make a date and run with it.  Ask her to go have another test. Give it another go. Not trying again may lead to regret. If she’s going to need you you’ll need to commit to her. Remember sister are forever xxx  P&S          ... View more