I’m going through a similar situation. There are FB prostate wives groups that you might find helpful. I found the cancer council very helpful to talk too. When I take a break away from my husband my spirits lighten so I try to get away when I can, walking or swimming. Also I go for massages which is great to loosen up all the tension in my body from coping with all this.   My husband has advanced prostate cancer and refuses all treatment, he is withering away before my eyes. He has decided strict detoxing will cure him so he is extremely thin and quite irrational and angry. ... View more

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I hope you are coping okay? It’s very hard for us who are the brunt of our husband’s anger and changed personalities due to this disease. I don’t know if this helps but I try to walk every day and swim laps to empty my head of his bad vibes. Of course that plan goes pear shaped when he wants to walk with me and I’ve got this ball of anger striding along at my side🙄   I try to look at the long game and I don’t want to look back and feel regret for how I handled things.     ... View more

It’s such a hard situation to be in and at the same time with coping with all the mood swings and everything else you’re still expected to be “the rock”. I’ve found the Cancer Council helpline very supportive. They might be able to suggest some support services, you can’t take it all onboard yourself. ... View more

I’m glad I found this thread as I’m going through a similar situation.   After 30 years of marriage it’s a bit of a shock to be treated with such disregard  since my husband’s diagnosis. My husbands personality has definitely changed, It makes me question my whole marriage. I often wonder who he actually is. I know for sure that if the roles were reversed I would not be getting the support and care that I’m giving him.   I guess the best thing going forward is to  work at not being bitter and angry for our own mental health 🌻     ... View more