my Mum is struggling with my cancer,  I'm Stage 4 breast and now it's been four years.  I have to pretend I don't have it when she is around,  my lifestyle has changed and she can't handle it.  I don't feel like eating,  I dont drink and my hair is thin.   she wants the old me back,  I sense she is angry at me and would rather spread time with people without cancer.     I also try and be upbeat with her and happy but it's not working.  I also don't know what to do,  it must be hard watching your children get cancer and there is no cure.   Hmmm I don't have any hints to make your Mum happy.  She enjoys spreading time with my children,  or going out in public.  Sadly I don't make my Mum happy and I do hope you have more success than me.   Take care ... View more