Hi, I'm very sorry to hear about your sister. What a dreadful situation. Cancer is a terrible disease.  I would advise you and your sister to be realistic about her expectations, but also to live with hope.  It's amazing what we can sometimes live through.   I'd advise going to see the surgeon and treatment team with a prepared list of questions. Ask the surgeon if it's ok if you record, and record those conversations. It can be information overload in those meetings and you are likely to forget some things that are said.   Let us know how it goes! -s ... View more