Patches, I’m so sorry for everything your going thru, but please know you are not alone. I can’t believe your husbands family would treat you this way, but then again I just lost my mom 1-14-21 to Covid and that same day we found out my husbands cancer has gotten worse and they are stopping his Chemo. My brother and his wife who are alcoholics, have started. I’ll explain in private message. I know we can’t pick family but I wish we could. Those who should be there for each other seem to drift apart. Isn’t there enough pain in this world. I can say from the bottom of my heart you are not alone, and you absolutely don’t deserve this treatment. I’m sending you a great big hug...I hope to hear back from you soon my friend. Xo