So we have only been married a month but its been a ROUGH month as he has been pushing me away and being rude, Saying things like he doesnt know if he wants to do this, he doesnt love me the same, he doesnt like coming home, he said he was only saying i love you because it made me happy.
All this month i was thinking my husband just started hating me and he just told me he may have prostate cancer( or kidney.bladder, testicular) hes not sure the doctors arent sure yet, and he admitted hes been pushing me away because he doesnt want me to know or be there for him. He even asked me today to stop being so lovey.
Is this normal? I feel heartbroken because of the words he has said but if this is just his coping I understand and of course am not going anywhere.
Do you really think a person would go to those extremes, he is saying getting married was a mistake. he doesnt want to spend time with me, doesnt say i love you anymore. Has completely shut me out but i ask if its just because of his health and he says no its us not my health
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