When does the hurt stop after loosing a love one to cancer ?

[FJE]

When does the hurt stop after loosing a love one to cancer ? The days are not to bad, but when you come home and are alone, after spending 30 years, with some one you love and she is no longer with you, the nights are not so good. I feel that I am intruding on friends lives, ring and passing on my problems when they have there own family. I feel lost at night - not wanting to do anything.

[Jules2]

FJE So sorry to read of your loss. It is tough to lose someone and very individual as to when people start to come to terms with what has happened. I hope that as time goes on you can remember good times and feel less at a loss. Julie