Now we are four! I'm a survivor of 14 years and have come to terms with the fact that although cancer may not be a death sentence, it IS a life sentence. Annual check-ups with my oncologist remind me, as well as the surgical scars on my body that are with me daily. Don't get me wrong, I don't live in fear and I've finally stopped waiting for the other shoe to drop, but I was only able to build a new 'normal' for myself once I realised that cancer could come back again and I can't change that. I use this knowledge to live as fully as possible every day. Being human, of course sometimes I forget to do this, but I believe that I do my very best to make each day something to be celebrated. Basically it's just a matter of keeping on keeping on - and no matter how far down the track you get, always have people to talk to who have been on the same journey. Family and friends don't want to hear about it over and over again, but if you need to talk, then you need to. Who better to do that with than other survivors?Jane