Depression

DEL53
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Depression

Diagnosed with Colorectal cancer late 2022 at 68 when completely fit with no issues. Since then have had 3 major operations, 2 were 13 hours, lost rectum, bladder, had full hysterectomy, left sciatic nerve cancer damaged resulting in little feeling in left leg and drop foot requiring a brace and walker for mobility. I have 2 permanent bags, stoma and urostomy and now cancer has spread to my liver which involves ongoing chemo fortnightly probably for the rest of my life. My husband is 83 and disabled and I used to be his carer but know he is trying to care for me which is difficult in my depressed state. Our previous enjoyment was sea cruising but we cannot do that anymore and any form of holiday is difficult these days due to my issues. I know some must be worse off but hard to carry on.

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Miranda_ccnsw
Cancer Council Team

Re: Depression

Hi @DEL53 , sharing what's going on for you here in the community is a great way to process things. You've had a long hard journey so far facing so much adversity. Navigating your surgery and the treatment journey has shown huge strength, courage and resilience. It must be hard for your husband also. Taking things one day at a time is a strategy I hear so many people say helps - a strategy you have very likely mastered now. 

Please know you can also call 13 11 20 and chat to one of health professionals about support options that are available to you - they are there Monday to Friday during NSW business hours. 

For others in the community - how have you coped on your long treatment journey?

 

Take care

Miranda CCNSW

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