Hi Karo, my name is Deb, I'm so sorry to hear that things are not going well with your treatment, it something I'm about to experience with my fiancée, as he is about to go through radiation therapy starting with the planning session on Tuesday, he wanted me to ask you a couple of questions if you don't mind..its all beginning to be very real to him right now and today is a bit of a struggle.. he says that the questions he has are silly but, I think if you feel it you need to say it and so I said I would ask you,
firstly, what did you have to wear? T is very worried that what ever he wears will rub on his scar which is still quite tender, do you get hot? or is it cold in there?
also .. what did it feel like?
and ... at what stage did you start to get sore?
.. and are you tired all the time or just after the treatments?
... did you still work during the treatments? he wants to ask this as his job is very physical (he is a powder coater and it requires lifting and bending etc.) so he is worried that he will be tired and not able to work.. he has sick pay so its not a drama but as I said he is getting quite fretful today.
I would understand if you don't want to answer, some things are personal and I understand if you don't feel like sharing. but like every one else on this site, we are just trying to do our best to understand this madness that has been thrust upon us..
I wish you well for the remainder of your treatments, and I know we will be thinking of you as we embark on our journey ..
best wishes and our kindest regards,
Deb and T