When you have negative thoughts and feelings why should you not express them .It's better than trying to pretend that they aren't real . As you found it makes you feel better to get it out . Do not feel that you have to tell anyone at work anything you don't want to,so you need to have some answers in your mind beforehand. Eg, had some health issues,taken care of now had some things to take care of for someone Maybe others can offer some better suggestions. You don't have to lie but think of answers that don't give much information and at the same time give the hint that you don't want to discuss it .No one is entitled to your personal information .Only share what you want. ... View more

You can't feel or act the same all the time so you can't be upset constantly. Anyway at work you would be in a different frame of mind.That said,there may be times when you're in denial. There were times when I used to say to myself that none of this is real 'cause it feels like I'm in a movie about someone else.This was when my husband had cancer 6 years ago and me last year. I suspect it's our mind's way of coping when the reality is too much for us. ... View more

It happened like that for us too. ... View more

I am sorry that this has happened to you .You have been positive so now it may be time to complain. You deserve to say how you feel .What happens now? ... View more

Couldn't see it on my computer for technical reasons. Bad luck for me also! ... View more

If you know the valleys hopefully there will be some peaks to come soon . ... View more

Will it be worth reading then ? Is it more of a lecture? ... View more

I'll look at it too. Thanks. ... View more

Thanks Ed .I have found ACCOI through Facebook. There is also the Rare Cancer Alliance and Team Inspire Health and Wellness , all of which I use. I was hoping to find someone close where I live . Thanks again for your input. ... View more