Melanie gave you some good advice . I hope you can enjoy having the time with your mum ,despite the sadness and confusion . At times people say that they wished they'd asked their parents about people or events in the past but thought of it too late . Maybe you have things to ask, maybe memories to clarify or to just share ,maybe new memories to create . ... View more

Just want to wish you well . It must be so difficult for everyone in your family . ... View more

Cutting a finger sounds like getting back to normal life to me but the effects not normal . It seems he's getting the best treatment for it . ... View more

I can't really imagine what it must be like to be going through all this . I can imagine the great sadness all around you . I hope you get some comfort from this site . ... View more

Having a licence is such a big thing in our lives . I'm glad for your husband and for you . ... View more

Even your riding a motor bike is impressive to me . ... View more

I have never watched someone close to me going through anything like this so I can't say I know how it feels . I can only try to imagine . I have also heard it said that knowing what is going to happen doesn't make the end easier . Maybe this is true ,maybe not . Look after yourself and create happy memories whenever you get the opportunity . ... View more

Perhaps the metasTesis to your mum's brain was a possibility the doctor was considering a year ago when he made that comment . Are they able to treat this ? You both sound as though you are coping well . ... View more

What a wonderful acievement ! ... View more

I meant to add that it is such a pity it took so long to convince your husband to see a doctor but it is of no benefit saying that now . I'll bet you have been thinking this since the diagnosis . ... View more