Hi John, Sorry to hear your bad news, life can be totally unfair at times! My husband John has stage 4 cancer & is now into his 14th month since diagnosis. When he was first told he had cancer I tried to talk him into going overseas but he wouldn't, we've managed a few trips away in Australia instead. My advice is travel as much as you can now! John is at the stage where he can hardly walk to the bathroom. From my experience of caring for John, one of the most important things you should do is exercise. When John first started doing Chemo we treated him like an invalid which was the wrong thing to do, his muscles started to waste away because we did everything for him, once we made him exercise he was a lot better. Try to keep fit even though the chemo will make you feel like crap, stay positive, do as much as you can & enjoy each day as it comes. Hope you had a wonderful engagement party! Barbara ... View more

Hi John, Sorry to hear your bad news, life can be totally unfair at times! My husband John has stage 4 cancer & is now into his 14th month since diagnosis. When he was first told he had cancer I tried to talk him into going overseas but he wouldn't, we've managed a few trips away in Australia instead. My advice is travel as much as you can now! John is at the stage where he can hardly walk to the bathroom. From my experience of caring for John, one of the most important things you should do is exercise. When John first started doing Chemo we treated him like an invalid which was the wrong thing to do, his muscles started to waste away because we did everything for him, once we made him exercise he was a lot better. Try to keep fit even though the chemo will make you feel like crap, stay positive, do as much as you can & enjoy each day as it comes. Hope you had a wonderful engagement party! Barbara ... View more

Losing a beloved pet is one of the hardest things in life, my heart goes out to you, it will take a long while to get over but Benny is not suffering anymore. Sincerest Regards BJS ... View more

I find talking to people can be difficult, emotions can make you break down & cry, whereas here you can say what you like & if the tears are rolling down your cheeks no one can see! ... View more

So glad you are looking towards the light at the end of the tunnel, hoping you will reach it sometime soon! Not so for my husband, there will be no cure for him, my logical side has accepted that he will pass away, my emotional side grieves every hour of every day! Wishing you both good luck for the journey ahead. Regards BJS ... View more

Hey Ben, You always bring a smile to my face & that's something considering what we are all going through. Keep up the good work. Best Regards, BJS ... View more

Good luck Katie, I hope you find a suitable job very soon. Best wishes BJS ... View more

What a huge blow this is for you all after thinking everything would be OK with your husband. My husband has terminal cancer, we were never given any hope of a cure, he is having more chemo hoping to prolong his life for a few more months. I recently went to counselling which was arranged through my local GP. You should try phoning the Cancer help line to find out what is available for you & your family. It takes a while to come to terms with the thought of a loved one dying you need to seek support to help you through these tough times. Prayers & Good wishes to you all. ... View more

Well done! A great accomplishment overcoming your fear of needles & helping your Mum out - hope it helps her feel better. Take care & best wishes to you both. ... View more