I too enjoyed reading your story . I agree that humor can really help, I hate when people tippy toe around me. Good luck with it all, I am so glad you found a doctor who was able to help. Cheers Rikki ... View more

Rubes Sounds tough and I feel for you. It sure is a tough gig. Let people care for you and know that all on this site are sending you good wishes Rikki ... View more

What a difficult time and decision for you. As a person living with cancer I am keen on as much honesty as possible, I don't won't to be misled even if people think they are doing it for my good. However, that is me and I know not everyone thinks that way. What is especially sad is that how you are feeling may get in the way of your relationship and that would be a terrible waste of time. Maybe moving your holiday is a good option. Be gentle with yourself, you will know which way to go. Rikki ... View more

Hi Rubes Stats sometimes can do your head in.. I agree we need then to know and try to me realistic. They are not good for pancreatic cancer either. I try to focus on one day at a time because in the end that is all any of us have. I hope you make the 10% and wish you well with your treatment. Rikki ... View more

Larsie24 So sorry to hear about your Mum. It is tough for all A day at a time is all you can do, making sure she feels loved and you do too Rikki ... View more

Ruby, I am so sorry that is not good treatment at all. I hope you have someone to go with you to hear whatever the news. It might be worth putting in a formal complaint, that is very poor. I hope the news is positive , be kind to yourself in the meantime Rikki ... View more

Ruby I tended to be quite assertive with the medical profession. That is too long to be waiting . Even if they have no definitive answer for you yet, you should speak to someone. Who did you see initially. Maybe start with them. The waiting is so stressful. Best wishes to you Rikki ... View more

Daniel, I hear you! I received my diagnosis less than 5 months ago and already I am struggling with the 'new normal'. I often wonder about this new person I seem to have morphed into. What happened to the old me? I can see after two years it would be very hard. Maybe kj's suggestion of someone to communicate with who is traveling a similar path would be good. In the absence of paid work you could try volunteering. Anyway I am sure you don't need our suggestions, just know we are listening Hope that helps Rikki ... View more

KaxPlus2 Sounds like there is lots of love in your home and that would be very appealing. Mother's guilt is so tiring, be compassionate with yourself too, as you are with others. It is also ok for you to be cranky sometimes! Take care Rikki ... View more

Thanks for that, I realize I am much more fortunate than some. In fact my Mum's experience helped me as I recognized the symptoms much earlier than most . Good luck to you too Cheers Rikki ... View more