Hi PhilPepper, Sorry, I don't know how I missed this post. I know we messaged a while ago so I was looking out for an update but I completely missed your post. Then just saw this post. Mate that sucks that it's come back. Like you say, there's not really any point being angry or bitter about it. It is what it is. Getting frustrated isn't going to help you any. But I can certainly appreciate the emotional upheaval of going home on surgery day. Ouch. I'm not too sure what the pluses and minuses are of having chemo/surgery first. I know what some times they try to shrink the cancer first before surgery. In my case, I had surgery first because my large bowel was almost completely obstructed. I'm glad to hear that you're dealing with it OK (at least from the sounds of it) . So, if you're back in hospital on Thursday, you'll post and let us know how you went on Friday (kidding - wishful thinking). Best of luck mate. If you need something, let me know. -s
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