Patches,   I am glad things have gotten a little better for you both.  Good luck with your meeting.  And will continue to pray for you all.  🙏🏻❤️ ... View more

Frosting, Best advice ever!!!! ❤️ ... View more

Ness001,   My ❤️ Breaks for you.  You are such a nice, caring and obviously love your boyfriend.   Can you return back to your house?  If your boyfriend wants to stay with his parents, then maybe you should do your normal stuff, work etc.   and then go see him after stay with him a few hours and go home.  His family sounds  selfish and wants  you to do everything, and treat you like you don’t or shouldn’t be doing anything else.  Well maybe if you give them a little taste of reality and if your not living there then, they will have to help him.   Then they will either respect you and know that YOU MATTER MORE THAN THEY WANT TO BELIEVE or your boyfriend will get a taste of reality and want to come home.   That also pisses me off that they would call you by the neighbors wife’s name or Princess.  How rude, they sound real immature.  I hat kind of cancer does he have?  I’m going thru Cancer with my husband and it’s extremely hard, not to feel appreciated but he is nice to his friends.  So my husband is selective on who he wants to be nice to.  If we get into an argument he tells my kids and they are early 20’s to 19 and 16.  And he is automatically right and I’m an Ass.  I’m so sick of being picked apart by all.  I an getting depressed and have recently been put on medication.  I have severe anxiety and panic attacks.  Please know that you matter, because you truly do.  It’s sad because now you get to see how important and rude his family is to you, when they should be thanking you up and down.  I’m so sorry you are going they this.  But for your own health, don’t stay there, go to your house or stay with your family.  But I wouldn’t want to be in the house with your fiancé’s family any longer.  Please take care of yourself.  ❤️ We are here for you... ... View more

Patches,      we are all thinking of you during such a difficult time.  Sending you and your husband tons of prayers.   ... View more

Sending you big hugs and many prayers Patches!  🤗🙏🏻❤️ ... View more

Hi Patches,     I’m so sorry, I know how it feels to be pushed aside, the feeling is aweful.   My husband started again today with me.  Ask me about what the dr. Said bc that I don’t forget anything and if he finds out I know something and didn’t tell him that he would be so mad.  Well I felt scared and trapped bc I don’t know his dr well enuff, so I didn’t know if the dr would throw me under the bus.   So I only shared what I was told and not everything.  I told him he was not ever gonna be cancer free and will never be in remission or cured.  I was petrified that the dr. Might say he told us.  The only thing I didn’t tell him was the stage he was at.  But after I said that I started saying the dr said he could treat until he can’t treat, he cut me off.  Started screaming and said when were you gonna tell me.  You have known for two F-in weeks and didn’t tell me.  I’m a big boy I can take good and bad.  So I thru my hands up not finishing the rest of my sentence about dr treating till he couldn’t treat.  And threw my hands up and said I’m leaving...bc he was getting so upset.  Now he says you left me in my room, thinking the worst...your so damn negative.  I don’t know why you want to hurt me intentionally or if it’s unintentional.  I would never hurt him.  I have been here the whole way.  He called my daughter, who called me an ASSH$&@.  And she candy coated everything again.  He said our daughter explained everything to him...and was mad at me.  I didn’t tell him bc I wanted to, I told him bc I was kinda threatened, with the thought of the dr. Who didn’t tell him might end up telling him that I knew and then I’m screwed.   I also think he should know a little bit, so he doesn’t push him self.  I never wanted to tell him.  I am now just a mess...I never told him what stage he was. I’m so mad at the dr. Bc he said he was gonna talk to my husband the day after the surgery, and danced around it...now I’m a dumb B...he’s mad at me.  I screamed and said I’m so unhappy, I’m leaving....I didn’t throw the word divorce out there, so he is assuming that’s what I meant so telling me how aweful I am for saying I’m gonna leave him thru his cancer.  Oh my god...I just feel like I can’t do anything right at all.   But his lying cheating friends he sticks up for.  I’m just a wife.  A very heartbroken Wife.  💔 who comes last on everything...the things this man has put me thru since 2014, no wife should have to bare the heartbreak.   Me staying and trying to work out my marriage, I guess like a blind Ass Wife and now he has Cancer and I love him, but the pain and hurt is unbearable.  I want to pack my things and never look back, but my heart is with him.  I just feel like his heart isn’t in it for me after 22 years and three kids.  His friends come first and I will never feel like he has my back, not like his lying cheating friends.   I’m sorry to vent, but that is what this is for right.  The GOOD, THE BAD and ThE UGLY. I don’t know what to do...  and we’ll I honestly can’t ask GoD to point me in the right direction bc he’s already put me in a very very bad place.  Sorry everyone...life and Cancer SUCKS!   ... View more

BJ067,   We all think the same about you to Bj067. That you are pretty amazing yourself.  We all definitely are here for support.  You are all amazing... ❤️ ... View more

I totally understand, my husband is the same way.  Lol.  But it’s ok when he does it....but me he says the same thing, you better not be telling them about my Cancer...🙄 ugh...No matter what we do they can pick us apart.  It drives me insane... ... View more

Patches,    Well you both are in my thoughts and prayers.  If you need to vent I am here.  Please remember to take a minute for yourself, even if it’s just for a short period of time.  🙏🏻❤️ ... View more

Hi Patches,       Just wanted to make sure you are ok.  Sending you and your husband my thoughts and prayers.  ❤️ ... View more