Hey Glendalee, Let me start buy saying I am so sorry to hear about your partners illness, how incredible hard it is to put all the information available to good use. Let me start buy saying I am a survivor (4 year remission) and my partner is now (2 years remission), they were equally incrediblly dark times in my life. The informatio available inculdes all age groups and demographic so its hard to say whats right for the individual. My hisband was told he was 2 weeks from deaths door wnhen he had his life changing surgery, everything we looked at said it was aggressive and chances of survival low...we just stopped looking. We agreed to what information we felt was helpful and what was really self distructive, it really is a juggeling act. I still say it was worse seeing my husband go through it than me, I felt so helpless. However, i was strong, positive and there very second I could be. Statictics can be limiting my husband defyed the odds, I totally believe you to can do it. What an amazing strong survivor you are, knowing that extra support (yes even online) is going to make you a better support network for your hubby. All the best to the both of you. Amanda XX ... View more

Hey NIkki, You have been such an inspiration to survivors like me, your presence will be missed. In saying that your bubba finn is the most important thing in your life and he deserves your undivided attention. Enjoy your goegeous little man and we look forward to seeing/hearing from you soon Amanda XXXX ... View more

Hey NIkki, You have been such a n inspiration to survivors like me, your opresence will be missed. In saying that your bubba finn is the most important thing in your life and he deserves your undivided attention. Enjoy your goegeous little man and we look forward to seeing/hearing from you soon Amand XXXX ... View more

Hey NIkki, You have been such a n inspiration to survivors like me, your opresence will be missed. In saying that your bubba finn is the most important thing in your life and he deserves your undivided attention. Enjoy your goegeous little man and we look forward to seeing/hearing from you soon Amand XXXX ... View more

Hey NIkki, You have been such a n inspiration to survivors like me, your opresence will be missed. In saying that your bubba finn is the most important thing in your life and he deserves your undivided attention. Enjoy your goegeous little man and we look forward to seeing/hearing from you soon Amand XXXX ... View more

Hi Missy Moo, I was a little surprised there was no content to the blog, I assume you may have lost your post. I just wanted to say my husband and I have had cancer and have 2 children so far 😉 yes I would like more. I was pregant with my first and found out I had thyroid cancer after his birth, 1 year after treatment I was aloud to concieve. Our 2nd was concieved thanks to science after my husband froze sperm before chemo for testicular cancer. Sailor is right, depends on the type of cancer and treatment. Always ask before treatement begins so that you can take the neccessary steps to freeze eggs or sperm or whatever it is you need to do. Best of luck to you. Amanda XX ... View more

Dear Amie, I read this and shed a tear remembering how my grandfather, my best friend, my strength and support succumb to his dementia 2 years ago. The hardest part of what your going through is that sense of your loved one being here, but not really being here; as they are not themselves when there mind is not clear. I can't tell you how many nights I cried myself to sleep, or panicked about his welfare or even worse wondered how he felt about his life. When my grandfathers dementia got bad he no longer knew he was forgetting, which made it easy for him but worse for us because he really felt nothing for us he did not remember past the age of about 10yo. You have to ask yourself what would your dad do in this situation? what would he want for you? in some way answering this is like having him there to tell you, like feeling his strength to help you get through this very tough time. I won't lie its not easy, but your love for him and his years of guidance to this point will give you the stregth to get through this. There is not a day I don't think about my grandad now, that void can not be filled but when I do think of him I smile. I was so blessed to have him for the time he was with me and it seems I actually had his strength all along. hugs to you, I hope today is a better day what a strong and brave soul you are. XX Amanda ... View more

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Dear Carolyn, I am not sure what to say but wow, what a rough trot. Sounds like you may need to push a little. I had to push and push for myself to get help and my husband when he was sick. I actually rang the hospital and found out how to get an oncologist, then went to our doctor and said write a referral we are booked in first thing tomorrow. Sometimes you have to push to get anywhere. I would also suggest calling the cancer council not just for some great support but also advice. Push, fight!! you can do this. XX HUGS Amanda ... View more

Just wanted to say how sorry I am that your life has taken such an unfortunate turn, you are right how quickly our lives change especially when cancer is involved. I just wanted to say I hope you are hvaing lots of good days filled with love, laughter and smiles. Amanda XX ... View more