Hi @Michelle2    I am so sorry to hear what you're experiencing. It is so difficult caring for someone with cancer, esspecially as you have been on the rollercoaster for so long now. I hear that you're feeling really tired and exhausted by all the stress. It can be really common to feel these feelings as a long term carer, you are not alone.    Cancer Council has some really wonderful resources and avenues for support you can read about here.    There are a number of support groups available for carers that you may find helpful. You can call us on 13 11 20 to find out about support groups in your area, or our nation wide telephone support group.    Perhaps others in the community could share how they have coped caring for someone with advanced cancer?    Its really great you reached out to this forum for support.    Take care, Felicity  ... View more