Counselling is a great idea, even for a norse goddess. I have not been in your position but have read so much about the value of good counselling where grief is concerned. I think you already know the answer. Talk to someone face to face! They are skilled at being with you as you grieve. It will make a difference, I am sure. And it would not be normal if you felt any different. Go with it. It is real. H ... View more

Hi Stacey78 my father had it - he was lucky enough to have radiation in the beginning followed by the surgery which was major and kept him in ICU for a week. Whilst the surgery went well a few month later the cancer spread and continued to spread quickly with hot spots my understanding is this is quite a rare cancer by Australian standards and is more prevalent in Asian countries. Unfortunately for my dad he didn't survive but I hope yours does!! If you want to talk feel free to private msg me. My brother is a specialist doctor so he ensured dad had the best doctors and treatment - unfortunately even with this the cancer was too powerful. Has your dad had the surgery? ... View more

I would have said do and act as you feel . Then I read Peanuts' reply and she said it so well . My thoughts are with you . ... View more