Hi Devo,
Sorry to hear you and your wife are having to deal with this horrible cancer. Yes it does feel like a nightmare in the beginning, and I definitely went through a stage which can only be described as grieving.
Similar to your wife I was treated for reflux for several months before GP sent me for a barium swallow test which showed the tumor.
I am very grateful for the support of my partner, who would encourage me through the pre-chemo panic attacks, and he was the only person I could talk to about all my fears. Carers have a tough time too.
Take care and I wish you both all the best.
Kathy
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