Hi Catherine and Skymirel, Thankyou for your thoughts and I am sorry you find yourself in the place you are at the moment. This stuff just comes manically out of the blue and sends you into shock. It's ok though because you do come out of the shock phase and into some sort of crazy routine. Don't get me wrong there are times when it is emotionally exhausting but I look at the quality of care my wife is recieving from her cancer care medical team and all of our fantastic friends (small country town) and it boosts morale. I am still scared shitless of this beast but I have a strong belief that we will eventually be rid of it and in a strange way better for the experience. This has solidified my love for my wife and has put into perspective what is really important in life. Good luck and keep moving forward. JC ... View more

I think its a great idea to set up groups. Do you have any located in inner west? Marrickville? ... View more