Hi Alina...Im sorry to hear about your mum. My partner is 71 and was diagnosed with lymphoma brain cancer last Nov....since then he has had chemo and radiation and is now in remission...he suffers from fatigue he says he aches all over all the time. Like your mum he wants to sleep just watch Tv all day apart from doctors and hospital appointments he doesnt want to go any were.stays in his pyjamas .he wont brush his teeth get washed for days..you can only do so much you cant make them do things they dont want to..we just get told 6-12 months till things get better..i work full time and then get home and start looking after my partner..he will make his own breakfast and warm up soup for lunch but thats all...you have just got to be posative and take each day as it comes cos they have good days and bad days...you say your mum lost her appitie..try and find something she really likes even if its chocolate icecream it is at least something they like..i know its not a healthy option.but if its something they like....or even the build up drinks are good...I wish you and your mum well...take care ... View more

Oh sweetie, you are not alone. No one can really know what you are going through other than someone who has been where you are. Isolate yourself somewhere remote and just SCREAM. You are allowed and entitled. I hope you find some solace somewhere. I sure know how you feel. xxx ... View more

So glad you left this post for me to find. ... View more