@Coz wrote: Thanks KellyM...I so appreciate you taking the time to reply. I feel so sad for your mum n Adobe Reader dad....hug your mum and let your dad know that he won’t be lonely ...can you get him hooked up to a men’s shed or something similar.? Meals on wheels?  Apart from coping with iTunes supporting my Discord husband is my fear of being lonely scares me. I’ve got friends and family but they have their own life....like your dad, I’m going to have to cope with losing my best friend and then how to live by myself...thank you so much for your encouragement i used to be numb.  I also cried loads.  You’ve got a hard direction ahead of you so if you ever need to talk, I’ll be right here.  look in your buddies and circle of relatives for guide, don’t be afraid to invite or allow them to recognize how you are feeling.  My husband and i have been eager travelers and had such a lot of hopes for a long retirement collectively but now we simply take it daily. We’ve had more than one brief stays domestically and in Sydney, both ended up with health facility admissions with high temperatures....we comic story about me understanding all of the hospitals among Sydney and Newcastle. matters are extra solid now and we do what we will, whilst we will. I so wish you two get to Uluru but if now not, find matters that you can do together ... View more

Oh @Coz    Sending hugs to you!! ... View more

Hi Jaquie   It is very hard with a stage 4 diagnosis of pancreatic cancer,sometimes you are consumed by thoughts of death and frustration,it is made even harder when chemo is so debilitating,unfortunately depression comes with that  disease,your husband needs counseling ,and the right medication.I have had friends suffer from PC and each person had a different mindset ,Trying to stay positive is very very difficult, he needs to try and focus on living one day at a time,you are by his side helping look after his needs,but you must also try and look after yourself at the same time as stated before the cancer council has services that may be of help to you both don’t neglect yourself.Best wishes  kj ... View more

Hi Jamie-lee....thanks for sharing with us...it’s such a shock when you hear the diagnosis and everything then happens so fast...and yes,  your life changes and it is hard to plan and it’s heartbreaking to see the person you love going through treatment.  Your new life develops and you adapt and you do different things together, you take pleasure where you can and you focus on each day, just as you two are doing. I’m sending lots of positive thoughts your way...take care 🌻 ... View more