Hi Shirley, Glad to hear from you again. To be honest I had had a look at your message a few times but just did not know how to reply to it. I cannot imagine how difficult it could be to be dealing with such strong feelings from different sides. Here in the community we are all open to listen and I have myself learnt a lot from other members insights. We are here to support each other and I hope you continue being part of it and find it helpful both to share your feelings and to talk to others in the community. Best wishes, Raul ... View more