I think it makes a difference depending on your age. I'm 69 and thankfully retired. ... View more

Hi Phil i also have stage 3 bowel cancer with only 2 lymph nodes removed. I think I was very fortunate. Have had my 3rd infusion of Folfox and 9 to go. Just watch your body temps. I had extra 2 days in hospital with fever and low blood pressure. I'm on blood thinners which cause blood cells to drop as well. But I'm not feeling too bad. When I read what others are going through I thank God mine is manageable. White blood cell levels dropped in my case.   take care. ... View more

Hi. I do want to express my heartfelt sympathy on the loss of your dear husband. My bowel cancer journey has only just started and I had questions about my own life and it was not nice. But you have had the devastation of loss. I am so sorry. I don't believe 'time heals all wounds' but I am a committed Christian with faith in a loving God and eternity.   Take care and somehow let God's love be a comfort. ... View more

Hi. Life is made up of little things, and when I started chemo this week for stage 3 bowel cancer, I realised I took so much for granted. Some days I don't want to go for a walk, but force myself. Just looking at people and how well they are - just like I used to be - makes me upset. My chemo is for 6 months so I have a long way to go. God bless you. ... View more

Hi Bianca I'm 69 ( much older than you), male with wife, 3 adults kids, 4 gchildren. I got diagnosed stage 3 bowel cancer December. It was a shock and upsetting, and I start 6 months chemo next week. Hospital and clinic staff are terrific. Try to stay calm and write down any questions or fears you have, and speak to them. This forum will help as well. The unknown side effects also worry me, but I pray for God's peace and help as I face it day by day. Try that for yourself. I know time drags when you're sitting around at home, but try to read a good book. All the best. ... View more