thanks melissa and amanda, actually today i managed to tell one of my older brothers the whole story, he lives in uk -and i have a good connection with him. I appreciate your comments and hearing your stories puts things into perspective for me as well. I wish I could get my son to access a site like this-he's good at burying his head in the sand !! ... View more

Hi All, Just wanted to give you a quick update. My brother has had 2 checks and they came well. One showed a small dark spot in the other testicle but it turned out to be a calcified mass so it was meant to be ok. Other than that he and his partner froze some sperm just in case as they want to try to have a baby in the next year or so. The chemo went well too. Only one session. Hope everyone is well. ... View more