Your post is hard to read because you both are around the same age of my oldest son and his wife .. Your partner is the reason I don't get upset about having cancer myself. I'm 55 with grandchildren. It really hurts me to see people who want to help and be supportive get treated so badly. You are awesome for going through this with him. At your age you could easily walk away from this and start over. Please don't take this wrong. Right now he is being very selfish. I believe it's because he feels he's lost control over his life. Cancer is something that effects your way of thinking and how you look at things. The great thing is we can control that part of having cancer. I personally have decided that I don't want my wife and family to have any pain that I can control.. He needs to really think about how he wants to be remembered if he does lose the battle. I don't want to throw away 55 years of being kind and loving just because I may or may not die . Have him please read this if he wants to . Let him know I'm here for him if he would like to take out his anger on me. Ill give him my phone number so he can cuss and yell at me. You are want every dad wishes for when a son brings home a young lady... You will be in my prayers. I sure hope he realizes what he has before it's too late. I
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