I'm sorry to hear your diagnose, you will get a lot of different people with whom you can talk to. Yes it is very scary when you first hear the word cancer! Yes the road is a scary one and the worst part is the mind. It plays such a terrible part, it finds a way to alway's find the worst. Family and friends can never be underestimated. Yes I had an unusual secomestance with my diagnose, but in the end they got the right diagnose. The pain after my operation was terrible but didn't last for as long as it might of. I start my last week of Chemo and Radiation next week and although I have had problems especially with the chemo, there are a lot of people out there to help. I was told by a friend's wife who is a nusre, NEVER TRY AND BE A HERO! Chemo and Radiation affect everyone different and if your having any trouble with anything speak up. I learn't that the hard way, typical male I can do this! Well I couldn't. So I contacted my Chemo nurse, that was in week 2, I'm in week 6 and my medicine's have still been changed to help. I wrote down all my question's on my tablet, so everytime I had a meeting the questions were there in front of me, I also made sure I had someone there with me as they always have questions that I didn't think of. Positive thinking and having a goal at the end really does help. Mine was to look out into my back yard at my boat that I am going fishing as soon as this is over! I wish you all the best. Stay postive. David.
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