Hello, so very sorry that you have lost your husband. I feel it’s so hard when you have so many memories of them suffering. I know that’s how I felt after my mum died after so much suffering. Just let your family and friends support you during this time of grieving. Love and prayers to you 🙏💕 Linda G ... View more

I am a sceptic of most quackology that isn’t peer reviewed.  HOWEVER…My partner is not. She received a prognosis of inside a year in November and talked in a squeak for three months. Then she got onto this slightly fanatical Facebook site and its dodgy snake oil schemes, but in doing so, reclaimed some sense of control, and her voice back and smiled at my terrible jokes.  I don’t have a compromise as far as vaccines are concerned. You can have all the freedom and right to choose as you like, but nowhere near me or my family. We had Covid over Easter and she will die if she gets it again and she has no freedom or right to choose.  ... View more

Hi   I don't actually have answers but I want to affirm you for your care and for reaching out.  This has been hard for you.  She probably can't think straight either.  I am sorry that you are going through this and imagine you have been amazing and will work it out.  All the best 💜🙏🌈 ... View more

I don't have answers.  I have dealt with hard stuff but that is much harder.  yes cancer sucks and no it's not fair.  Love and prayers hope that doesn't give offence.   ... View more

I think you know what to do and that you just need someone to believe you and reassure you that it is OK to be human and have limitations.     I am sorry that you have been through this.  I don't actually know what you will do exactly but I want to tell you that praying for your brother is a good thing to do and that I am encouraged by your story to believe that the world still has people out there doing their best in messy circumstances and I believe that you will keep doing the best you can and that is all any one of us can do.  ❣🙏 ... View more

Hi   I am surprised and disappointed that no one has replied to you before with compassion and empathy.    Having lived through a brain tumour and surgery myself I acknowledge that my behaviour was affected and I only processed the odds of a shortened life without facing certain death.  I had to acknowledge to myself and my family that my behaviour was hard on them.  I imagine the cancer has affected your partner's behaviour just as mine was affected and I am CERTAIN  that cancer and uncertainty and fear have affected my husband's emotional regulation...   BUT you are human too and I affirm and applaud your honesty,  your willingness to consider what is right and compassionate and most helpful.  I know the world needs more givers like you.     I am sure you made your mistakes in the relationship but you still want to give what you can and setting boundaries is best for everyone involved.     I have experienced already how easily people show compassion to the cancer sufferer but how much less support there is for their carers.     I cheer you on with doing the best you can with what you know,  for forgiving yourself and your partner whatever comes next.  it is OK to be human.     I can offer love and prayers  ... View more