Hi Jacq, has your dad said how he feels about radiation? Or how he feels about this awful situation? I’m glad he can stay home and you will get help to care for him if necessary. You are such a blessing to your parents and it’s such a privilege to be able to help them. I truly wish this wasn’t happening to you all🙏. I hope you were able to get all the information from the oncologist to decide on the best way for your dad. 🙏💕. Linda. Ps protein powder mixed into milk is easy to swallow and nutritious.  ... View more

Hi Jacq, yes your reply has come through! Hope you’re doing ok 💕🙏 LindaG  ... View more

Hello Jacq231, that is such sad news about your dad. I’m so sorry 😢. You are amazing looking after your parents for so many years. It’s awful that your dad has made it to 89 and now has this diagnosis. I don’t know what treatment the doctors will recommend but consider quality of life for your dad depending on what treatment. It is such a hard time of life to see your dad having to go through this.  The cost of loving 💕. I had to let my mum go and it broke my heart 💔. Somehow I have managed to live without her but it’s taken a long time to stop grieving.   Your dad sounds wonderful 💕. I will keep you in my prayers 🙏. LindaG  ... View more

Hi Erica55, I can understand your feelings and it’s just a part of the start of the grieving process. Plus you would be physically and emotionally exhausted. You need to recover and it will take time. When my beautiful mum died it was so difficult. And yes, the funeral is the last thing you do for your mum and then you fall in a heap😢.  It’s now 3 years ago and I’m feeling better but still miss her every day. I hope you have people around you that you can be real with and will support you through this time. Sending you love and prayers 🙏💕. Linda  ... View more

Hi Maher, I’m so sorry about your situation with your precious dad. You really need some medical help to advise you what to do. Is there someone you can contact to assess your dad?  You can’t do this alone and that’s just normal and you are not a failure. Please try and get some help. Love and prayers to you 🙏💕. Linda  ... View more

Hi Reece87, that’s such sad news about your sister and it’s obvious you love her so much. Just spend as much time as you can with her, tell her how much you love her. It’s just so very hard to know what to say. Be true to your feelings. Say all the words you need to say to your sister. Sending you love and prayers 🙏💕. LindaG  ... View more

Hi, maybe you could check with the cancer council about what questions you need to ask. You can ring them. Also make sure you have someone with you for support and to remember what you don’t.  Hope tomorrow is ok for you 🙏💕 Linda G ... View more

Hello, so sorry about your diagnosis and I understand the shock and anxiety that comes with it. You will know more after Wednesday and once you are given a treatment plan hopefully that will settle your anxiety. I just did lots of crying with my first cancer diagnosis and that seemed to help relieve the anxiety somehow. Do you have a close friend or a sister that will support you?  You can always ring the cancer council to talk to someone if you need to. Sending you love and prayers 💕🙏. LindaG ... View more

Hi Chris, sorry you have to have surgery. Yes it’s a scary choice to have to make. I’m sure there are people on here who have had Whipple surgery so hopefully they will respond to you. Maybe do your own research about this type of op or speak to the cancer council for information. Sending you love and prayers 🙏💕. Linda  ... View more

Hi Robynmay, so sorry about your diagnosis. All I can suggest for your appointment is write down your questions and take someone with you. Sometimes you can’t remember what is said because of your emotions. I’m glad you had a nice time with your family and were able to be open with them. Sending you love and prayers 🙏💕. LindaG  ... View more