Hi Salor,
Wow - you're truly an inspiration!
And I don't mean that lightly - I've actually just read some of your blog posts and I can see you've had a real struggle... but you my friend, well, you are putting up such a fight!
Thanks for popping in and giving me some encouragement. I genuinely want you to know that it means a lot to me that you'd take the time to reply!
It's early days now and to be honest, I don't know a great deal.
I'm torn somewhere between wanting to know "everything" about my dad's battle (and worrying like crazy) - to standing back a bit, being their to support and letting him take charge.
So bare with me if I sound naive.
Supposedly my Dad's cancer was aggressive and a "9" on a scale of 10.
The doctor has told him to lose some weight, eat healthy, the same stuff any Oncologist would say and yeah - 12 months or 5 years... so who really knows.
I know tomorrow is promised to no one... so watching my Dad go through this, I'm incredibly proud of him!
I believe its metastasised on to some bones or something - it all actually started as he was having pains in his hip/pelvis area and they finally tweaked on to it being Prostate cancer after many many scans.
He's on HRT at the moment and according to him, it's really eliminated almost all of his pain. I enjoy hearing that, but know it may not be forever. I believe in 2 weeks time he is having an injection or going on medication that will strengthen his bones... as some of his meds can weaken them.
He's being as optimistic as possible.
Sailor - you've been a great inspiration and if you can point us in the direction of anything - please, I'd love to hear from you.
My dad is 62 for your reference... and I'm half that, at 31. We don't really have a mentor - or a go to person - and I'm not asking you to be that... but I know that having people in a similar situation around him could help.
Again - thanks for your reply. I've really enjoyed reading your posts and you've done such a great job putting this cancer at bay!!! (Sorry to use the "Bay" term... considering your a sailor) 😉