Peanutz and hi to Hopeful & Exhausted
Sorry that I dropped in with the above (previous) comments.
I did not acknowledge you appropriately, and your partner is about to start the chemo-radiotherapy next week.
Otherwise welcome to the land of the unwanted GBM (Great bloody monster -insert your prefered words) The tumour takes and changes a lot from your life including money. Future hopes and dreams are changed/made uncertain or lost as you walk and go through the differnt stages.
The finding out - surgery, radiation, chemo (and then,the worst of all, the RPA hospital food - that in itself should be a huge incentive to politely ask the unwanted GBM guest to leave its host - shame the GBM does not have a direct link to the injestion of food - a potential wonder drug)
Ps I was not the patient, but just one mouth full of the rejected hospital food from my partner, and during a shameful stage of overt hunger on my behalf left this heightened and lingering adversion.....hoping never ever to go back.
But really I want for her (my partner)and myself not needing to go back, needing the hospital and its support network.
You and your partner having to go through with this experience its unfair. You will come to meet some remarkable, caring and unique people.
Hugs & love
Geoff