Hi April,
So sorry to hear this sad news. Having support from friends as well as family is really important.
I read this book, which I found in a card shop, "Stronger than Cancer" by Connie Payton, published by Compendium Inc.... and it really helped me - a cancer survivor for over 9yrs now.
I think it is available on Amazon.
Hope the treatment plan will be successful - staying positive throughout the treatment really does help, but it is easier said than done.
I found focussing on nature a big help, thinking about the seasons and viewing the diagnosis/treatment phase as the "winter" of the journey, with "Spring" & "Summer" to look forward to.
Sam