I volunteer at our local cancercare centre. It is a setup called Cancercare Information Centre. In our "special" room, we have pamphlets, booklets,cd's, the internet and phone available for patients or carers. Sometimes people just like to have a chat, and that is ok too. Only go in once a week for 3 hours, but sometimes if someone can't make their shift, we are contacted and asked who would like to fill in. One week I did 3 mornings. After our shift we are asked to debrief with the help line 131120, and that helps us to get over any matter that we may have found difficult.
It is three years since I was diagnosed, and I feel really good apart from the old knees and other things we seem to get as we "age".