Hi @Wal2330    I'm really sorry to hear you are going through this. Having melanoma return like it has is incredibly hard and it makes total sense that your mind is swinging between hope and fear right now. Thank you for sharing this with us.  The waiting between appointments for news, plans, results and next steps can be one of the toughest parts to all this. So... it's completely normal your thoughts might roller coaster around - it doesn't mean you're not coping, just that you're human.    Please know you don't have to carry this on your own. If at any time you'd like to talk things through with someone who understands cancer care and the emotional side of waiting, Cancer Council's health professionals are available on 13 11 20. You may find one of our telephone support groups for metastatic melanoma would be beneficial to support you?    Perhaps someone else in the community has been through something similar? What tips would you give to @Wal2330 right now?   Here's a resource on Immunotherapy that might help understand treatment options better also.   Stay strong, Miranda  CCNSW   ... View more

Hi @Olddoug - I hear you in your tiredness. Keep fighting.   All the best Miranda CCNSW ... View more

Hi @Olddoug    Processing tough times through writing is such a powerful thing to do. I enjoyed reading your words - keep going, keep writing, keep loving.    Remember, the team at 13 11 20 are here for support if you need a little bit more help at any stage.   All the best, Miranda  CCNSW ... View more

Hi @JustinB    You've been through a lot - two cancer diagnoses and subsequent treatments are a huge thing to navigate. It's great you've reached out here as it can really help to process what you've gone through and are going through.    Wishing you all the best with your chemo sessions and I do hope the cold cap helps in the longer term with the effects of the chemo on your hair and that things go as best as they possibly can for you.   It sounds like your oncologist has explained things really well, here is a booklet on lung cancer that also may offer a little more insight for you. If you have any more questions and/or would like to talk to someone about support options, you can give the team of health professionals on 13 11 20 a call and they'd be happy to listen and help.   Stay strong Miranda  CCNSW     ... View more

Hi @Jodie42  I'm sorry to hear of your diagnosis, it's such a shock and can be a scary time. Facing surgery can bring up many emotions and surgery to your face and lip must be quite daunting. As a mother, you're not only worried about yourself, but also the needs of your child - it's very natural and a big thing to face.  Here are a couple of resources that may be of help to you: Emotions and Cancer Talking to Kids about Cancer You may also wish to contact our team of health professionals on 13 11 20 to ask any questions and hear about any services that may be of support to you such as our Volunteer Support program, Cancer Connect or Counselling services.  For others out there who may have faced a similar surgery, what words of support helped you when you received your diagnosis? Stay strong Miranda  CCNSW ... View more

Hi @iamtommy, I'm sorry I am unsure where your question may have been sent. Cancer Council itself doesn't have a webpage with a list of counsellors, perhaps it could have been a different organisation's webpage? When someone calls the Cancer Council 13 11 20 team, and counselling is a fit for them, they are matched directly with a registered counsellor who is experienced in helping people affected by cancer. You may wish to contact the 13 11 20 team if you haven't already called them, you reside in Australia and feel that service might be a great support for you. All the best with your search and finding support, Miranda ... View more

Hi @iamtommy    It's so wonderful to see the support you are giving and receiving here in the community. In particular, with the realness and rawness of the conversation you're having with @Richard1 . I'm sure that many others will gain hugely from your conversation also. I just wanted to jump in and let you know that you may find the Cancer Council Counselling service a suitable option for you as you mentioned you were looking for counselling. Just give 13 11 20 a call and they'll be able to talk you through any questions you may have.    All the best, Miranda  CCNSW ... View more

Hi @Joefarmer63    I'm sorry to hear about your cancer and admire the strength you are showing by fighting it as best you can. Finding companionship during such a tough journey can be challenging, but not impossible. Having someone to talk with and be with can help you to feel less alone during tough times - and maybe even provide moments of joy in amongst it all.    Perhaps someone here in the community can offer a suggestion as to what has worked for them to find a partner who is open and understanding of the cancer journey? I am not aware of any dedicated sites for cancer patients trying to find partners. It could be that a regular site could be suitable if you position your situation up openly front and share where you are at.  It will be interesting to hear from others.    Wishing you all the best, Miranda  CCNSW ... View more

Hi @Nagaboss_india  Just popping in to share a resource that might be of help that has information and a podcast on nausea and vomiting.  Wishing you all the best in finding relief in and help with your father's difficult situation.   Stay strong, Miranda CCNSW     ... View more