Just when I thought we were doing alright... my partner finished chemo-radiotherapy on 10/10. At the moment, we are just waiting for him to start chemotherapy. We have an appointment with his oncologist tomorrow afternoon.
The last few weeks he did OK but was tired most of the time. He felt dizzy sometimes. Occasionally, he felt good enough to go super slow jogging, 3-4 times from my memory. Last week we went on holidays in Thailand for a week and back on Sunday. He did quite well during the trip without any problem and felt better towards the end of the trip. However, since this early morning he has had quite a bad headache, vomited a few times today whenever he tried to eat/drink something, and been in bed the whole day. Still he doesn't want to go to a hospital, he really hates it there. 😞 I'll let him sleep in our bed tonight and tomorrow morning if his condition is not better, off he goes to the hospital. He's a lot bigger than me and I'm not much help when his legs go week and about to fell over. Is this the start of the 'down' trip? I feel helpless. I don't really know what to do. I have work to do, people to manage. I've been in my job for only 8 months and I already spent 8 days on carer leave this year during the surgery and recovery to support him.
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