Hi CURLA, I am sorry to hear about your husband. You've come to the right place. As you mentioned, I had 12 rounds of chemo, but I also had fair bit of surgery. I also have a significant amount of monitoring and scopes each year for the rest of my life, but hey, life goes on. I'm not too sure that there is a magic list of things that you can do for your partner. That's going to depend your individual set of circumstances, but one thing I would advise is to be present. Listen, talk, get angry, cry and laugh together. There are many people here who have to deal with treatment beyond their 12 or 18 rounds of chemo and also many others who have helped support partners and family member who have gone through ongoing treatment. Best of luck. -s
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