hi there! im not familiar with this cancer at all but all i can say is vent away on this site! we are all here to help you.. seeing your partner going through chemo and radiotherapy isnt the nicest thing.. it can be really challenging at times and you have to try not to take things personally when they get grumpy... although chemo and radiotherapy can have nasty side effects they do have some good qualities to! i hope your husbands treatment goes well 🙂 stay strong ... View more

im really sorry to hear that! how frustrating it must be for you.. hopefully this time round you'l know what to expect... even though i doubt it'l be any easier.. what kind of cancer do you have? best of luck with your treatment 🙂 ... View more

hey there! i dont know much about oespohagus cancer but all i can tell you is to hang in there! never give up hope! my boyfriend is about to have an operation to remove a tumor they told him could never be operated on.. nearly one year on and things are really looking up 🙂 i believe the oncologists are not god so they dont know what will happen.. ive heard really good things about clinical trials.. i wish you and your husband best of luck.. hang in there things will get better soon :) ... View more

haha yeah sammex we both r! chocolate can enduce endorphines i think thats y we reach for it wen feeling down! ... View more

i must agree! ive watched my partner eat watever he wants (hes having bowel surg next week) and hes put on weight and is healthier than ever! hes happy to he loves his choc and beer! im aware after his op hel need a special diet but atm hes just loving life.. 🙂 so i say if a chocolate bar makes u happy then eat that damn thing!! ... View more

my bf has had cancer for nearly a year and ive noticed im his outlet to anger.. wen he had chemo and radiotherapy he used to yell and scream at me over nothing! i think in your situation your friend might be very scared and worried.. being told u dont have long to live is a very big nasty thing... drinking is probably his outlet.. is he having chemo or radiotherapy? ... View more

im so sorry to hear this 😞 that is very unexpected.. its horrible how you can get your hopes up then crushed just like that... take care of yourself.. grieve now and start the healing process.... ... View more

im so sorry to hear this 😞 that is very unexpected.. its horrible how you can get your hopes up then crushed just like that... take care of yourself.. grieve now and start the healing process.... ... View more

hey im so sorry to hear all of that! your poor dad 😞 its horrible i know cancer should just go f itself really! similar situation to you i must say.. my boyfriend has been battling cancer now for 8 months and his parents are always fighting, my friends dont talk to me coz they think im always ditching them and can never go out.. work is shitty because i take to much 'sick' leave.. cancer really does unfourtantly bring the worst out in people.. it sucks as for your brothers gf she should be more understanding and realize that your brother should be with his FATHER! Who is she to say that he cant? Family should always come first!!! keep hanging in there i know its hard.. especially when we see the ones we love the most suffering.. i always believe that things will get better, and that everyone has to go through a big struggle at some stage in their lives.. this just must be ours.. ... View more