How old is your mum? It's difficult to offer suggestions , mot knowing the personalities and the roles you each have assumed . Families are all so different . Maybe a round table discussion??? Has Mum really been asked what SHE wants in each situation or does she let others take over ??? My mum is 83 and has 12 children so in a similar situation there would not always be full agreement,I am guessing. Best of luck! ... View more

well my mom was diagnosed on thursday breast cancer we dont know if it has spread till monday. my warm thoughts for you..im only new to this journey and can only imagine how terrible further down the track it will get. just remember i dont think anyone who goes through this doesnt struggle with seeing their loved one go through it. especially your mom. ... View more

Hi Guys, yet another newbie to the site. I have already had an email from one on you and your support has been amazing. Thanks so much. I hope l can help one or more of you some day. Regards Meandma ... View more