hi Doofette1 - for me it has been 12 years since my husband died - I am now 62 - no the grief doesnt go away, it just blends into each day. The journey goes on and the the intensity of the grief gets less with time and easier to bear. Family and friends and lots to do make all the difference, but at days end the bed is still empty except for you - that for me is the hardest part ! ! I have never said this to anyone so I suppose it is a moment for me too.
If you have children it is important to remain focused for them - mine were 18 and 20 - so a critical time in their education at University - this helped us cope.
Stay strong
claudia
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