Hi Roxanne, distance can be awful at a time like this.  I can't really offer you anything (I live in Melbourne) except a friendly greeting.  I hope you find lots of support from this group.  You could maybe ask your GP if there are any support networks in your area, or any government benefits you are entitled to- help around the house etc.    Sending warm hugs, Emily ... View more

Hi Roxane, I understand where you are coming from. But you will get through this. Don't try to do it all at once, just take it one day (or even one hour, if one whole day seems too much)at a time- it's such a cliche, but it's really true. Don't forget, too, that being strong and supportive doesn't mean not crying- if you do what you need to do while wiping away your tears, your are being as strong and supportive as anyone can be. You could ask the social worker (or maybe they have already told you) if you are eligible for something like home help- having someone come in to do a bit of cleaning or grocery shopping for you, or something like that. Accept any practical help you can- the more you can offload onto other people, the better. Sending strong hugs- you can do this. Emily. x ... View more