Hi Leisa,   Thank you for your contributions to the this community. I'm just wondering how things are for you now, a few weeks after your father's death and funderal.    If you haven't seen them already, Cancer Council has some resources that may be helpful, on the experience of grief.  Please click here to access the page.  There is also our publication on Understanding Grief which you can view online or download.   Please take care, Margaret Online Community admin team ... View more

I feel for you. My husbandof 24 years passed earlier this year. We spent 24 years together and I also cared for him at home in the final days. It was one of the hardest things I have ever done, helping  the love of my life  through this final stage of his life. I am so glad I was there through this but the memories are still so hard to deal with. 3 months on and it still hurts so much, still can’t get my head around the fact that he is no longer here. Your post is so similar to what I felt that I really do hope you are doing ok. ... View more

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  That is so soon!! No wonder your head and heart are spinning.  Be gentle with yourself.  love and hugs, Emily ... View more