Hi Debbru,   Getting a hot or warm scalp is a very general symptom and could apply to many conditions.   For example:   Warmth can be an indication of a rash or infection. It could be contact dermatitis if you’re allergic or being irritated by something you’re using. E.g. creams, cleansers, soap, shampoos or conditioners. (Try something fragrance and sulfates free). The scalp tends to get sore, hot or irritated before hair loss after chemotherapy. Due to inflammation. Depending on age it could be an symptom of menopause Hormonal changes in general Side effects of medications   I believe going to your treating doctor or a dermatologist probably would be for the best, due the long list of possibilities - especially if you’re in discomfort.   But for now I suppose you should avoid direct sunlight exposure to the affect area, try not to wear anything too warm or wooly on the head, use a cold compress – try peppermint oil or aloe vera as they act as natural cooling agent, wash your hair regularly to avoid dirt or oil accumulations. ... View more

That's a fine and wise approach, sounds like they have the safety-net all planned out for you.   How are you feeling about this? ... View more

Greetings CAP,   I have found some sites or resources that might prove somehow useful to you. If I discover any more information I will update this post. I hope something will assist.   https://headandneckcancerguide.org/adults/cancer-diagnosis-treatments/surgery-and-rehabilitation/reconstructive-surgery/prosthetic-rehabilitation/ - Head & Neck Cancer Guide – Prosthetic Rehabilitation   https://www.macmillan.org.uk/information-and-support/head-and-neck-cancers/coping/side-effects-and-symptoms/late-effects-head-and-neck/eating-drinking-after-treatment.html - MacMillan Cancer Support – Effects on eating and drinking after head and neck cancer treatment   “Treatment can affect eating and drinking. Chewing and swallowing involve your lips, teeth, tongue and the muscles in your mouth, jaw and throat working together. Surgery or radiotherapy for a head and neck cancer can affect this. Tell your speech and language therapist (SLT), doctor or nurse about any eating or swallowing problems you have.   An SLT can do a swallowing test to show what happens when you swallow, so they know what the best treatment is likely to be. They can teach you exercises and techniques to help you chew and swallow and advise you on the best foods to eat”   https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer_experiences/ask_the_expert/ask_a_dentist/discussions - MacMillan Cancer Support - You can ask a (UK) dentist for advice on these forums or find related stories as some things are universal     (You can contact MacMillian with general advice or questions on contact@macmillan.org.uk for additional research purposes).   https://www.cancervic.org.au/get-support/connect-and-learn/ask-a-nurse - The Cancer Council Victoria (AUS) – You can speak with a nurse or even e- mail one your general questions, if you like.   “Our 13 11 20 Information and Support Line is open Monday to Friday, 9am to 5pm (cost of a local call, except from mobiles), and is staffed by experienced cancer nurses. Although we can't give individual medical advice, we can talk about the effects of specific types of cancer and explain what will happen during processes   like chemotherapy, radiotherapy or other cancer treatments. We can also provide tailored informational, emotional and practical support, and can link you with our wider range of support programs.”   Additional information recommended by the UK Cancer Research:   https://www.cancerresearchuk.org/about-cancer/mouth-cancer/living-with/resources-books - UK Research Cancer – “There are lots of organizations, chat groups, books, videos and other resources to help you cope with mouth and oropharyngeal cancer and treatment.”   https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer_types/head-neck-cancer/f/head-neck-cancer-forum/34721/partial-maxillectomy-and-obturators - MacMillian Cancer forum – People sharing some of their journeys ... View more

Greetings,   I might be a little late for site recommendations but hopeful something here will prove somewhat useful in the future.   https://myhealth.alberta.ca/Health/aftercareinformation/pages/conditions.aspx?hwid=ug3388 – My Health Alberta – Speaks about daily activities, diet, medicines, incision care and signs to look out for.   Here is a sample of the site that you might find interesting:   “Women should wear a well-fitted and supportive bra, even during the night, for 1 week. You will probably be able to go back to work or your normal routine in 1 to 3 weeks after the surgery. This may depend on whether you have more treatment”   “When you find out that you have cancer, you may feel many emotions and may need some help coping. Seek out family, friends, and counsellors for support. You also can do things at home to make yourself feel better while you go through treatment. Call the Canadian Cancer Society (1-888-939-3333) or visit its website at www.cancer.ca for more information.”   https://www.breastcancer.org/treatment/surgery/lumpectomy/expectations - Breast Cancer - Speaks about before, after and warning sites but it shorter detail.   Here is a sample of the site:   Weeks and months after lumpectomy   “As nerves regrow, you may feel a weird crawly sensation, you may itch, and you may be very sensitive to touch. Your discomfort may go away by itself, or it may persist but you adapt to it. Acetaminophen or NSAIDs (pronounced EN-seds) such as ibuprofen usually can address the pain related to this type of nerve injury. Opioids (pronounced OH-pee-oydz) also can be used to treat this type of pain.   https://www.emedicinehealth.com/lumpectomy/article_em.htm#when_should_someone_seek_medical_care_after_a_lumpectomy – Emedicine health – Gives more information regarding warning signs and before/after care as well.   Sample of site and warning signs:   Women who notice any of the following signs or symptoms following a lumpectomy should call their doctor for medical care: Signs of infection-swelling, redness, tenderness Increasing pain Excessive bleeding or discharge of fluid Chest pain or shortness of breath Vomiting or nausea Signs of infection or fluid buildup in the underarm   ... View more

Hi,   I had to ask a friend according to their experience for this one but everyone is different. She experienced the following:   * 1 week of slight numbness * Pain started to kick in within 2 weeks, due to damaged nerves healing. * Pain still consisted somewhat after the 3rd week   "For 1 or 2 days after the surgery you will probably feel tired and have some pain. The skin around the cut (incision) may feel firm, swollen, and tender, and be bruised. Tenderness should go away in about 2 or 3 days, and the bruising within 2 weeks. Firmness and swelling may last for 3 to 6 months." According to My health - Alberta ... View more

Hi there Maxnutter,   I am sorry to hear about some of the recent news that was received but it’s good to see that another surgery went well.   As a general rule cancer that has spread can be awkward to treat. Treatment can help assist shrink or control them; it’s a delicate balancing act and your doctors will select the best treatment plan available for you. (Remember you can always get a second opinion and everyone is different). I’ve heard different stories but that’s either here nor there.   Please keep us up to date, if you like - whether it's manyy years from now or so. The forums are here.   ... View more

Hi Mummabear1,   I'd consider Dr.Google to be somewhat of an Frenemy, it has so much useful information but....sometimes that information can incorrect or the prospect of it is plain scary. I would really avoid searching for documentation that doesn’t officially apply to yourself currently, especially if you’re just essentially stressing yourself out. (But if you must browse please only consider well developed and respected sites), Waiting for results can be just painful sometimes; maybe a distraction or change of direction would be helpful?   Distraction: - Continue on with everyday life or create an to-do-list - Read novel or watch an movie - Discover or carry on with hobbies - Practice meditation - Exercise - Focus on work - Arrange more time with family or friends - Puzzles/Games   Change of course: - Read other’s journeys and stories - Research health and dietary needs (exercise or vitamins for example). - Talk to your friends or family - Offer advice to others or provide general support   Here are some sites that I think you might find helpful.   https://www.curetoday.com/community/mike-verano/2016/08/the-dos-and-donts-of-waiting-on-cancer-test-results - The Cancer Updates, Research and Education: Offering general advice regarding waiting.   https://www.verywellhealth.com/coping-with-anxiety-waiting-for-test-results-3955875 - Verywell Health: Coping with anxiety while waiting   Please do keep us inform about any future ongoings! ... View more

Sounds very action packed for the next couple of weeks. I hope you remember to rest inbetween activities! ... View more

Hi Mistress,   I’m glad that you discovered these forums; there are plenty of stories to be heard/shared and advice to be given, on here. I look forward to hearing more about your journey too. (Remember you also have the option to ask your treating doctor and hospital as well, for more medical inclined questions). There is many options available at your service. ... View more

Hi Chrissst,   Welcome to our forums, it’s good to hear that you have a loving and supportive family by your side. These forums have many different stories to reflect upon and often follow similar feelings or patterns to relate too as well.   (Just in case but knowing the fact I'm most likley incorrect), if you don’t mind me suggesting have you tried adult sanitary pads? They can be discreet and catch any emergency flow as well, giving you more efficient time to seek privacy if needed. Sometimes people tend to avoid these things. ... View more