Patches, My thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family.  May you find peace and comfort in good friend and family.  Please don’t forget we are here for you.  As you mourn know we are and will always be here to listen.  We are still going thru our battles and you can still help us as we can you.  Paul will always be with you in your ❤️.  Sending you a Great Big hug...xo R.I.P Paul 2-24-2020.  😇 ... View more

   Hi Cath1, Are you gonna meet me half way across the POND!  LMAO...( Laugh My Ass Off) ... View more

Cath1,   go to top of the screen profile, then look at messages I sent you one and it’s private.  Only between you and I.  I just sent you another.  Big hugs...xoxo ... View more

Patches,  wow, you have your plate full.  Your step son sounds very nice. ( the one that comes every chance he can, and would do anything for you or his dad).  So are you taking care of his dad also?  Boy have you earned your wings my friend.  Such a big heart.  I’m thinking of you and your husband daily.  ❤️ ... View more

Hi Cath1,  Today is slightly better, bc I told him I’m probably leaving.  Did you get my message in your inbox??? Lots of love my friend across that large POND!!! Lol. You made me smile...😀😘 ... View more

Hi Cath1,  I am going to go thru my things, I have also removed my wedding rings.  He broke my heart yesterday when he said that he is f-in stuck with me in this house.  Absolutely was the last nasty thing, I could let him say to me... When I’ve been here thru this whole thing and 28 years.  All I’ve done is cry since.  He came in this morning and asked me if I want coffee?  I’m afraid of letting him make anything for me...might put something in it to knock me off. So I said I’ll make it, he said no I want to.  He did then, tried to kiss me on the lips and I said oh no.  Hasn’t apologized or anything but after everything he has put me thru since 2014.  I just have to really think this all out....  I hope and pray you have another wonderful day my friend across the pond... ... View more

Hi Cath1, Yes, a very large pond between us!  Lmao...I’m so glad you had a great day, so deserving.  No my day sucked.  We got into an argument bc I finally said something about the letter I wrote him about a week and 1/2 ago about asking me why I am upset.  He got up saying are you friggin kidding, I have to ask you.  He doesn’t get it...I am starting to believe he never will.  Everyone will come before me.  I put most of my clothes in trash bags...I just don’t know what to do, I’m so upset...😭 I can not go on with feeling like this...ya know I told you he said he is glad he got it and not me.   I’m really thinking he is lying 🤥...Cath1 none of us deserve this...hey I inboxed you...look at your inbox...I just don’t know what I did in my life to be treated this way.  I always make sure everyone is taken care of...I give up...🤯 ... View more

Patches,    I am sending you a great big hug, saying prayers for you all...❤️ ... View more

Hi VM, Wow!  Yes you did.  I do believe in Karma.  After everything you have been thru with him, I’m surprised or can’t believe your helping him out.  That’s what happens when at least one of us have a heart.  Even if broken by this person, we still some how gather as many pieces we can put together for them and be there, when no one else would.  You are obviously a big hearted person VM.  Sending you a hug.  It’s sad, but we all have story and Cancer just sucks.  I don’t wish Cancer upon anyone.  I truly don’t. But I truly don’t like being verbally abused or treated like I’m some scumbag oh wait, my husband has some scumbag friends that he treats and is more excited to see then me and much nicer to...this plain out Sucks!!!  It absolutely is causing me so much anxiety, I feel like I have a house on my chest.   Big Hugs to all you caregivers!!!  Without you and your BIG HEARTS what would any sick person do?  Cancer or no Cancer...❤️ ... View more

Hi Cath1,  first of all big hug!  Second how weird is this.  My husband said the same thing.  He told the dr’s and the nurses and others that thank god it was him and not me.  I swear to god.  I asked him what he meant by that. His honest response was bc he will fight this and wouldn’t want me to go thru it.  So not sticking up for your husband, but that’s probably what he meant.  Secondly believe it or not he probably wouldn’t be able to cope with your girls and grandchildren, seeing them so sad.  So believe it or not he is admitting he feels you would do better than him with your girls and grandkids.  I believe that to be true, only knowing you for such a short time.  He is saying he couldn’t bare to watch you go thru this.  I swear to god my husband said the same friggin thing.  Also he isn’t thinking about Corvid and how bad it is, bc he has Cancer.  Believe it or not my husband and I just had this same argument 2 weeks ago, when I was at my three family, my tenants know my husband has cancer and can’t catch this and neither can I.  Well my second floor tenant whose dad works with my husband.  ( my husband hasn’t returned to work yet) but my tenant was coming down to see me, everyday I was there.  Well yet to find out his father has Corvid and two other guys from my husbands office also had it.  One just died 7 days ago Louis Fabello.  You can look it up.  Well I text my husband bc he is being told who has it at work updates.  So I text him saying are you trying to kill me...meaning you know I was coming to the house and joe my tenant was gonna come say hi to me when his dad has Corvid and lives 6 houses away from my three family that his son lives in, and he visits his family like 10 times a day.   He said is he ok.  Not worried about me at all.  I cried, especially bc I take care of him and worry about him at all costs.  I’m still barely talking to him, it hurts so bad.  Today I really didn’t do poop around my house or anywhere.  I am mentally distracted and can’t stay focused.  My heart hurts so bad, wrote him a letter a week ago Monday so now a week and a half ago, saying I have barely been talking to you and you haven’t even asked what I’m upset about. Hmmmmm ya you care.  He said well your very vocal so if your not happy then your gonna tell me.  Well I didn’t and haven’t and it’s been a week and a half and he still hasn’t asked me.  Yup double whammy!  Ya would have thought if I’m telling you there a problem and you haven’t asked and I’m telling you, you don’t care about me.  Then what would be the first thing you would do, hmmmm I’d ask so what is wrong, how can I make you feel better? Nope I didn’t get that at all.  😪.   What a life we are living.  We are living the F-IN DREAM GIRLFRIEND!  I know I love him or I would be so flipping gone by now, but I’m dying for that same love in return as you are.  Who we kidding we want to hear how much they love us.  But most of all more than words feel it, see it and smell it...now that would be the F-IN DREAM!!! ❤️ Hope to hear back from you soon. Oh and you didn’t say where your from.  I told you I live near Boston Massachusetts????lol ... View more